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Title: Out of touch?
Post by: Jimpav on January 25, 2024, 02:48:04 PM

I was sat in the Stevenage Road stand for last nights game and there was one bloke that literally didn't stop sharing his opinions at the top of his voice for the entire game.

Whether it was the ref, the opposition, Marco or whichever one of our players was involved in the action (or lack of it) he had something derogatory to say.

Their players (in particular Elliott) were C**t's and p****'s, Silva knew nothing, Liverpool is a S**t hole, their fans were bin dippers and our players were all effing hopeless/useless.

It was mildly amusing to begin with, but quickly became tiresome. After 90 minutes, I was almost glad that we hadn't taken it to extra time.

I'm sure we've all had a rant at some point, or dropped a few F bombs whilst supporting Fulham, but this was on a different level - particularly given that this was the family zone.

Am I out of touch or is this part and parcel of a match these days?

 
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: Sgt Fulham on January 25, 2024, 02:52:58 PM
Back when I had a season ticket I sat next to one of these guys. Clearly unhappy with life and used football to vent his frustration, I eventually zoned him out. For right or wrong people are more unhappy these days, so you can expect to see more of these types around.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: john dempsey on January 25, 2024, 03:11:51 PM
I experienced this exact same thing, vowed that it would be the last time i sat
next to the Khans.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: Jurassic Parker on January 25, 2024, 04:10:43 PM
Just tell him to shut up, no need to tut and roll your eyes when you have words. Takes one person to say it, and say nods and agreements from surrounding fans, and that person suddenly feels silly.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: filham on January 25, 2024, 04:13:40 PM
Guess he is happy in his misery but unfair that those around have to share with him.
The advantage of the old free standing terraces was that you could move away from such characters.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: WindyCity on January 25, 2024, 04:18:54 PM
No, I don't think you're out of touch.  You should have felt comfortable enough to tell him to button it up.  That's what I would have done, and have done at various sporting events in similar situations......
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: King_Crud on January 25, 2024, 04:22:10 PM
Quote from: WindyCity on January 25, 2024, 04:18:54 PMNo, I don't think you're out of touch.  You should have felt comfortable enough to tell him to button it up.  That's what I would have done, and have done at various sporting events in similar situations......

i told a teenager to turn his phone volume off when I was on the bus last week. I was expecting the worst but he apoligised and complied, I was shocked
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: Twig on January 25, 2024, 04:56:42 PM
I think you've every right to ask him to cool things down and to cut out the constant swearing. If I had one of my grandchildren with me I would certainly do so.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: hovewhite on January 26, 2024, 09:25:51 AM
He's just another everyday wally.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: The Old Count on January 26, 2024, 09:37:09 AM
Was he Mick the Beard?
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: RaySmith on January 26, 2024, 09:52:06 AM
Breaking the normal Fulham fan practise of quietly clapping, with the occasional murmur of 'well done sir.' :)
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: H4usuallysitting on January 26, 2024, 10:07:22 AM
I blame scott parker
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: filham on January 26, 2024, 10:17:49 AM
Quote from: H4usuallysitting on January 26, 2024, 10:07:22 AMI blame scott parker
yes you could call it Parker Ball I suppose.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: General on January 26, 2024, 10:20:31 AM
Quote from: Sgt Fulham on January 25, 2024, 02:52:58 PMBack when I had a season ticket I sat next to one of these guys. Clearly unhappy with life and used football to vent his frustration, I eventually zoned him out. For right or wrong people are more unhappy these days, so you can expect to see more of these types around.

Agree with this.. particularly the unhappy with life so venting part. Person ideally needs support and help.
Title: Re: Out of touch?
Post by: Lighthouse on January 26, 2024, 11:28:48 AM
Those sort of verbal fans have always been around. Shouting and swearing and telling players they were rubbish. We all have mumbled and cursed under our breath but most of us know how to behave. I blame the tv and computer age where fans are so used to being in their own bubble. We have lost the art of how to behave in the wild.